(Closed) BF is attracted to our roommate. I think. Please. Help.

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 181
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Busy bee

Good for you for taking action and I hope you get this resolved quickly, for the sake of your mental health! 

Post # 182
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

P.S. Idk if it helps or not, but I just wanted to add that I ran this situation (and what you and “Joe” observed) by my DH and he was like, “Is there really any question? They’re f**king. I don’t understand what the drama is about, it’s fairly obvious, isn’t it? They’re not doing a good job hiding it.” So, that’s from a guy perspective.

Post # 183
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Buzzing bee

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KatGrace130:  Good luck! Honestly, I would be doing the same thing, and I’d probably go even crazier and be waiting just incase they do leave together to follow them, but that’s just me. I just hope that they aren’t being careful not to do anything in the house since you asked him about it.

Post # 184
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Best of luck OP! I hope you get some answers tonight!

Post # 185
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Busy bee

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stephanie091512:  So, you read this, “I know this is really devious and some of you may think it’s a little much, but if you do, I ask you to please not comment. I am having a hell of a time thinking the person I thought I was going to marry is at the very least having a flirtacious emotional affair with one of my good friends/roommate” and still felt the need to criticize.  Nice girl you are! Some people just can’t help but kick someone when she’s down.

OP,  I wish you the best. I’m sorry you’re dealing with this. At the very least, you have two people that are close to you who can’t stay within what should be obvious boundaries. I hope you get the information you need.  

Post # 186
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Busy bee

Hope it all works out for the best. 

Post # 187
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Helper bee

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KatGrace130:  good luck. It’s not an easy time, and it sucks that Joe is going through the same thing. 

Just make sure to be careful and do not let them accuse you two back saying you two are acting suspicious. Cheaters tend to accuse others for doing something to hide their tracks and make them look like victims.

Post # 188
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

good luck, i really hope its another thing… like… a surprise for you guys

Post # 189
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Busy bee

Ugh after OP’s last update I am anxious for her. Sending good vibes and hoping it is all a misunderstanding. 

Post # 190
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

Honestly, whether he’s cheating or not, I think you should end the relationship. Either there is something fishy going on or not. Either way, you don’t trust him. For me, that’s enough to call it quits. And think about the lengths you are going to to “catch” him and her…if there is even something to catch. Maybe he’s been manipulative about his behavior and that’s wrong. So why are you doing the same thing?

Post # 191
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Good luck, OP!

Post # 192
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

Commenting to follow. 

Post # 193
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2014

Commenting to follow – I hope it all works out for the best, OP and that you get some answers.

Post # 194
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

Commenting to follow. 

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