(Closed) BF is attracted to our roommate. I think. Please. Help.

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 346
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Obviously she forgave him (believed him).  I never understood how someone could want so much help from strangers but then when it comes down to it it’s ignored like it never happened. 

Same thing with that Anna chick who said her man planned a “surprise honeymoon” when he unbeknownst to her went on vaca to Cali without her and even to a mid-week wedding? But no – her man is amazing and they’re growing in love! 

Oh and what about the woman with the hubs who was banging prosititutes? 

Oh well. 

Post # 347
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Busy bee

 I never understood how someone could want so much help from strangers but then when it comes down to it it’s ignored like it never happened

I don’t assume she ignored all the advice. I assume this blew a hole in her life and she is losing cabin pressure rapidly and struggling mightily to prevent a major crash-and-burn. While still having to deal with day-to-day bullshit. And I seriously doubt that high on her priority list is filling in a bunch of strangers on the latest. Most of whom don’t really give a shit about her but just want more juicy info and are more upset about being left hanging than they are about what this means for this woman’s real. fucking. life.

Hang in there OP. I know you’re mind is probably going a hundred miles an hour right now. PM me if you need someone to bounce things off of privately.

Post # 348
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

interchangeable:  +100. THIS. If her worst case scenario came to fruition and they broke up, which is just as possible as “obviously she forgave him”, then she is likely dealing with that. Whatever the outcome (working on things or not) she is dealing with it, and just as all of us would be, she is probably not concerned with much else. 

As stated in my PP: OP this situation sucks whether he is being totally forthcoming or not, bc him having a crush can simply hurt either way. Here for you if you need anything –no matter what the outcome. Good luck with everything!

Post # 349
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Busy bee

 

MrsMaverick13:  Yeah. This isn’t solved by the other couple just moving out. And even if it were, there are laws in place about how much notice they have to give them and so on. The other couple moving out isn’t going to happen instantaneously. Whcih means this situation and everything that goes with it is in the OP’s life for the foreseeable future. That would be pretty tough to deal with. Knowing there are going to be times the 2 of them are at home alone. Rough. I’m sure OP’s mind activity is pretty frickin’ intense right now.

Pile that on top of *just moved recently* and *heavy work schedule* and I’m sure it’s taking everything OP has to keep it together right now. But hey! Least bitch could do is give us complete strangers the latest juicy update. How freakin’ selfish. We all bent over backwards taking 120 seconds out of our lives to sit on our ass typing a response and she just leaves us hanging! How ungrateful. Guess she didn’t know that asking for advice was a legal and binding contract agreeing to actually implement every word of that advice. And if my advice conflicts with other advice well then, she needs to take my advice, obvs. Duh!

Post # 350
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

OP is probably just dealing with the shit-storm that became her life after all of this…

Post # 351
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: January 2015

I would just like to know if she is okaY! 

Post # 352
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: January 2015

BellaDee:  can you send a link to the llsurprise honeymoon thread??? im so curious to read about that!

Post # 353
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Blushing bee

As much as I would love an update because I have been checking this thread everyday, I hope you’re okay KatGrace! Remember it is your life and it is your heart.

Post # 354
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Helper bee

OP, I’m just writing to say that I hope you’re ok. No matter how things turned out I’m sending prayers for joy & peace your way! 

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