Post # 1
Hi there ladies,
I got a BFN today even though we BD right on time according to OPK and charting, all precautions taken, even legs up in the air, so quite bummed!
Please share other BFN stories even when you did everything on time. I’m felling very disappointed and bummed right now and need some pick me ups!
Super thanks great bees!
Post # 3
Aww, I am so sorry it didn’t happen for you this time. This is our first cycle TTC (just stopped BCP) and I can’t POAS until next week but I expect I will be in the same boat. We have done everything in our power and I held my legs in the air too! Haha. I know that even though my chart looks well-timed the chances are still only around 20% to get a BFP. Seems crazy to me that I spent so many years trying to avoid getting pregnant and it is actually this difficult! The way I plan to look at it is if you hadn’t timed intercourse well, then you don’t even have a 20% chance so it would still take more tries before getting a BFP. At least you know you timed this one well, so you are one month closer to getting pregnant! Good luck and I hope you get your BFP soon!
Also, how many days til you expect your period? Maybe your hormone levels aren’t high enough yet to register on the test if it’s still early. Here’s hoping! 🙂
Post # 4
Update: i actually did get a bfp later on! So lesson learnt- don’t test before your period is due as you may get bfn and get real bummed. At least that was my case. Tested on 5 days after AF was due and lord and behold, three preg home test gave me BFP!
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Oh yayayaya!! Congrats on your BFP dear!!
Post # 10
Congrats! I made the mistake of POAS twice and AF isn’t due until end of next week… hopefully I’ll join you with a BFP!
Post # 11
haha that’s awesome! Congratulations!