BFP – Tell husband before or after going to the Doctor? (pics)

posted 3 years ago in Pregnancy
Post # 2
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Blushing bee

First pregnancy I texted my so while he was at work because I was in total shock (ended in mc). second pregnancy I waited until he got home from work and showed him the test. 

Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2016

Congrats! Personally, I would tell him. I didn’t even get to schedule my first OB appt until I was 10 weeks along. I would also have wanted my husband’s support in case things didn’t go well. 

Good luck!

Post # 4
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2011

I would 100% tell him. If god forbid something is wrong are you really not going to say something?

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

I would tell him the whole story so you are on the same page, regardless of what happens.

Post # 6
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2018

I wouldn’t want my husband to not know about it even if I miscarried. He’s supposed to be my partner in life, and that’s a major part of life! 

Post # 7
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

You know your husband best, OP, but mine would have been really hurt and mad if I kept something like this from him. I’d tell ASAP! 

Post # 9
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2017

Congratulations! Not at the TTC stage but your bleeding could well have been implantation bleeding from what I’ve heard, those looks very strong positive tests – share with him

Post # 10
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

I would tell him but you should be cautious. I wouldn’t buy the ornament. When I had a miscarriage I still tested positive for days after. The heavy bleeding isn’t a great sign, I don’t want to scare you though.

Post # 11
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Blushing bee

Try a cold water rinse & prewash stain remover soaked for a bit before running it through the wash. You can repeat as many times as needed, just don’t send it through the dryer until your satisfied. I’ve rarely had to throw away anything period stained with this combo. 

Post # 13
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Blushing bee

twistaway :  haha aw, at least this gives you an excuse to get a comfy new pair for Christmas!

Post # 15
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Newbee
  • Wedding: August 2016

mangococonut :  Agreed.  I was still getting positives several days after my chemical. 

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