BHLDN dress choice help!

posted 2 years ago in Dress
  • poll: Which dress should I choose?
    Calla : (43 votes)
    33 %
    Regan : (68 votes)
    52 %
    Amanda : (19 votes)
    15 %
  • Post # 16
    2013 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: April 2018

    Tbh number 1 looks very similar to a bridesmaid dress of theirs that I wore a few years ago. Too bridesmaid like

    Post # 17
    2497 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    tomatotoes :  So, I really like the simplicity of Dress #1 (Calla) and it’s very flattering on you. One thing to consider, that dress seems to have a gray tint to it.  Any dress would/will get dirty along the hem at an outdoor event, but this dress starts out looking kind of dirty. How will that look in-person and in photographs? Is it available in white? 

    Dress #2 is also lovely, but as a PP mentioned, the waist hits you too low. Shortening the straps a bit would quickly fix that. 

    I’m a sucker for a bit of lace on my tulle, so I vote for Dress #2 (with minor alterations). Good luck!

    Post # 18
    374 posts
    Helper bee

    #2 is very similar to #1 but with some added beading and work. It is your wedding day after all – bling it up! 🙂 1 and 3 I felt were nice, but too boring for a wedding.

    Post # 19
    402 posts
    Helper bee

    Love the Reagan on you!! I loved it in pics but tried it on but ended up not liking t on me, it looks great on you though! If you feel more “you” in one though that’s what you have to go with! 

    Post # 20
    149 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: October 2018

    They are all beautiful, but I voted for the Reagan. Like others said, Calla kind of has a bridesmaid vibe. I wore a very similar BHLDN dress as a bridesmaid last year. The Amanda is beautiful as well, but seemed a little more formal than the wedding you described. I think the Reagan would be perfect!

    Post # 22
    653 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: March 2017

    I think number 1.  You can jazz it up with a statement necklace or long earrings and a nice hair do.

    Number 2 hits oddly on the waist and actually makes you look ‘hippy’ which you OBVIOUSLY are not.

    Number 3 is plain and I dont like the way you can see your tummy/belly button clearly through the fabric.

    Post # 23
    5038 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: September 2017

    LOVE Amanda!

    Post # 24
    8453 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper

    tomatotoes :  

    Well, I voted Calla, but I could just as easily have  said Reagen , you look great in both. I think I like the classic Grecian lines of the Calla just a tad  more.  And I like the colour , as a fellow person with a similar pink/fair skin , I agree it is so much better than dead white or, conversely ,  blush

    ETA I just read what you added about impressing   his family a bit , and I think the  Reagen is a bit more noticeble that way,. It only needs the straps shortening I think , to make the waist right . And Calla needs hiking  up too, its sitting too low.


    Post # 25
    17 posts

    I really like the first one on you! It won’t be bridesmaidy once you add the veil!

    Post # 27
    33 posts
    • Wedding: August 2020 - City, State

    In my opinion, I think it look better strapless. I’ll go for the first because it fits you  really nice like it was made for you. It looks more natural. This dress is like  a blank canevas and you can add a belt and wear awesome jewelry to make it more special.  

    Post # 29
    230 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: August 2015

    You look stunning in all three!

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