- 8 years ago
- Wedding: March 2013
My fiance and I are still in college, me a senior, and him just a sophomore. We are planning on continuing our education up to, and after our wedding without question, but I just recently found out that I will be eligible to graduate after the next semester- in May. He goes to school about 45 minutes away from my University, at a smaller community college, and when I graduate, we are definitely going to be ending our lease and moving to another city in the same state that has a University that I can continue a masters program, and he can finish his bachelors. We both agree that we want to move to a specific town with a great school that my parents actually graduated from. Not to mention, I have several family members still living there currently, and it is much closer to my family in Texas. We both very much want to transfer and move there.
The only problem is that my fiance’s mother has already accused him several times of liking my family more than his own, and spending more time with us. This move would be physically towards my family and away from his, which we feel would only add more to the problem. How should we go about this? How do we bring this up to his family?
To add: We do spend more time with my family than his because he has a very unstable (drugs, no finances, criminal activity) family, while I have more of a clean cut (business owning, upper-middle class) family. While we love them all equally, it is just not a good, or clean environment that we want to spend majority of our time around.