(Closed) Big Fat Nothing

posted 8 years ago in TTC
Post # 3
1227 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2013

it hurts when you get your hopes up 🙁 how many DPO are you?

Post # 4
270 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

I feel ya. I’ve done this I swear every month, and we’re doing like you…not reall preventing. It makes me afraid for how I’d feel once we put the full press on to actually start trying.

Post # 5
266 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

I’m sorry.  Until I was TTC, I didn’t realize how painful it would be to see only one line and to keep trying month after month.  It can be really lonely when you want a baby, it’s not happening, and you have no one to talk to.  Don’t give up.  As they say on here, here’s sending baby dust!

Post # 6
1481 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I don’t know what’ consitutes “trying” or “not trying” but i’ts my humble opinion that if you aren’t using any artificla birth control, barrier methods, withdrawal or abstainance and you are going about your married life as normal…that, well, it’s going to happen sooner or later…and for many people, they consider that trying.


While charting, temping and all that might get you pregnant faster, this way works too and has been working since forever, so It could happen for you very soon…you never know. I too feel a littel sad everytime I get the BFN even though we aren’t really trying either…but it will happen when it’s the right time for you.


Post # 7
2734 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

I’m sorry you’re going through this, and I totally understand!  I actually went out and bought some FRERs this afternoon because I’ve been feeling nauseated and crampy all week – but I’m still on the pill!  I can imagine if we were NTNP I would be symptom spotting every month.  It’s not surprising that you feel disappointed, you’re ready to take this big step!  It is strange though to spend so many years worrying about falling PG and hearing about how you have to be so careful, and suddenly being in the opposite position where it’s all you want.


Keep your head up – and here’s hoping that when the two of you are ready to start TTC for real, you see those two beautiful lines quickly 🙂

Post # 8
3910 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

@Soon2BeeMrsG:  ****HUGE VIRTUAL BEAR HUGS**** it sure hurts to see just one line and believe me, Ive been there many, many times.  It doesnt get easier, especially when you are officially TTC.  Hopefully when you get to that point, you will get your BFP right away, dear.   

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