(Closed) Big Fight

posted 9 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
925 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

Luckily, our huge arguments have never involved exes, but we do argue over things that I think are more ridiculous.lol  It sucks, but I think it all just takes time.  It’s hard being in a relationship and dealing with different feelings and most of the time someone feels different about what happened than the other person.  It’s sssooo annoying!!  But hopefully, after a while you guys can laugh at what you argue about.  I know we do! ha


My advice.. don’t drag it out!  It just makes things worse

When you meet for lunch talk about it at first, then move on to something else.

Post # 4
16213 posts
Honey Beekeeper

Oh Rosie Girl, don’t worry!!! I really do think everything will be fine, and I am not just saying that.

Sure, it sounds like a “dumb” fight, but it’s about something real—what kind of relationship you two are going to have with exes/members of the opposite sex. I am not saying that he doesn’t trust you. It’s just that he loves you and would probably prefer for you not to have too much contact with your ex.

I think you guys need to sit down and talk about what you’re really fighting about. Ask him first how your “friendship” or whatever you would call it with your ex makes him feel. And then tell him how his “friendship” with that other girl makes you feel. (I am using “friendship” in quotes because I don’t know if you would say you are friends still with your ex or just friendly.)

Just establish some “ground-rules.” Come to an agreement on how situations (no matter how big or small) will be handled in the future. And remain honest with each other—that’s the best way to avoid any feelings of insecurity.

Everything will be okay, hun! Just calm down and don’t freeze him out—he loves you!

Post # 5
1207 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

Awww *hugs*, we had a huge arguement yesterday.  Over setting the raw turkey on the counter.  Yeah, so we all fight over stupid things!  I agree with Gemstone on setting ground rules, it will def help.  Also, arguements make you a stronger couple, as long as you can forgive each other!

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