- 7 years ago
- Wedding: January 2013
so i wrote up the oath! in my last post (pt2) i said i would need to write an oath that B & C would agree to to be bridesmaids its more like a contract but i like to say oath…it has a more honorable meaning. so here it is…please feel free to use this if you too are having bridesmaid drama!
The Bridesmaid Oath of Honor
For your wedding and the days leading up to it, i will do my best to make this time in your life as special and easy as possible .
I will respect your decisions and will politely comment or discreetly opine on all
I absolutely will not cause drama, spread gossip, pout, roll eyes or display any negative attention getting.
I will be kind and tolerate everyone involved in the wedding process.
I will keep all comments and concerns of others to myself until I can speak to you on the matter in private so conflicts can be handled quickly, peacefully, and quietly.
I will communicate all my concerns so there is not a hint of stress between us.
I will step down if I cannot comply and will wish you well with no hard feelings.
I will be helpful, cheerful, and smile no matter what!
I will enjoy this time in your life and celebrate it to the fullest!
and thats that! so what do you think…got everything in? im also going write each of them a letter stating all the great reasons they should be bridesmaid but also state the concerns. i plan to include this oath for them to sign. i tried to be as non bridezilla as possible…i dont care if they all match or have their nails done a certain way or if their hair has purple streaks or crazy make up or if they want to wear different jewelry or if they cant make every little thing…..i just want them to behave, be helpful, and be happy! also…should i have one for each BM? i have 3 so far and its just the 2 im concerned about….i may just give the 3rd (J) one and say i have to do this for the other 2…what you do for 1 or 2 you should do for all right? not that they would know…but i guess its still the right thing to do.