(Closed) Birth Control Pill and Choosing the Wrong Mate

posted 5 years ago in Wellness
Post # 3
1547 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

Yeah, i read the before, thank god i wasnt on it when i met now Darling Husband

Post # 4
371 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@missjess12:  I personally don’t buy into the idea that you could meet a man, fall in love, to the point where you marry him and commit to a life together….and then decide to stop taking birth control, and all of a sudden you don’t want to be with him anymore. I just don’t believe that the pill has THAT much influence over sexual attraction, ESPECIALLY when you’re also in love with the person. 


I have been with Darling Husband for 3 years and in that time, have spent periods both on and off of the pill. I never noticed a difference in how much I loved or wanted him. 


I wouldnt worry worry about it, OP. Really.

Post # 5
6222 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2013 - The Liberty House

I learned all about that in school, but from my experience, I didn’t notice any difference being on the pill or off.

Post # 6
6256 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: March 2014

Falling in love is a hormonal, magical thing. Staying in love is largely a choice. If you’ve been together this long, and you’re happy, I seriously doubt he could be the “wrong mate.” And if your hormones start telling you otherwise, just ignore them, like you would if a new hot guy started working with you or something.

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