(Closed) Bitch it out

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

So sorry you’re feeling this way!!! ๐Ÿ™

Post # 5
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

This is my gripe of the week.  I got my feelings hurt last weekend, by no fault of anyone, but feelings hurt none the less.  He got so upset that he couldn’t “fix” it, so he took it out on me by being upset with me.  OMG, Are you serious!?  How did me getting my feelings hurt get turned around to be about him? Still kind of ticks me off.

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@MsBrooklynA:  I hate that no matter HOW much I try to respond to people and their snark/judgements/hurtful words, I will always be labeled as a know it all or a pompos ass. I dont do it to make myself feel good, I do it so I dont feel bad about myself when I know Im angry and letting that out might mean hurting someone. Im not cold, and Im not petty or passive aggressive. I just know its better to be detached than try and respond to snark with snark. Even if it would be SO easy to do it sometimes. I even thanked someone today after they insulted me and assumed things about me. Im sick of being nice when people are obviously care less about hurting me than I do them. Yeah I want to bitch about how come I cant be mean sometimes and get away with it too?

 

Post # 7
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@MsBrooklynA: Im sorry you feel badly too. Thanks for posting this

 

@tksjewelry: That would tick me off too- I think we are all entitled to our feelings, imo.

*hugs to ya all*

Post # 9
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

Sometimes it’s great to let it out.  I hate doing it with friends and family as they are protective and are prone to taking a vent and holding onto it as a character flaw of the FH.  Nope, sometimes a vent is just a vent.

Post # 10
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@MsBrooklynA: OMG I know! And I feel guilty if I call them to task or actually do something so their meanness is notices- like I have to justify my feelings or ignore them by saying I have “tough skin” Screw tough skin, this person insulted me on a personal issue and gets away with it, while I have to be the bigger person. Forget that!

Post # 11
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

@MsBrooklynA: Well, I hope next week is a million times better for you! By the way, totally off subject…your picture used to be my picture! It was always my inspiration picture when we were going to have a barn wedding. LOVE IT!

Post # 12
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@tksjewelry: sometimes people just have to let go of whats inside. I dont believe its ok to make character judgements on that, definitely, cus thats unfair. You have to let go sometimes, ya know?

Post # 14
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

Yup, thank goodness for the Hive.  We may not always agree, but there is always a place to let it out, like it or not. 

Post # 15
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@MsBrooklynA: Actually in my case I was the OP but thanked the person who was rude and snarky to me. I’ve read so much about flagging on here lately that I pretty much feel guilty even when I know something is wrong and shouldnt be said. Its made me not flag anymore. Even in my own post I was like….ok I gotta be the bigger person. Gotta set the example. Say thank you and move on. Thats because I am the OP…but I have to admit I wanted to say something completely different.

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