Post # 1
Recently, I realized that both my Fiance and I have these odd urges to bite who and what we really like.
He almost always bites my leg during sex, I’ve bitten his perky bum more than once, we’ve both bitten the pets, and I even sometimes have the urge to bite the diamond in my ring as if it were a berry (I don’t do that though, I’m sure it would suck to bite something that hard). Oh, and one of our pets bites us when she’s really happy. (And by “bites” I mean in all cases playful nips, not actual damage-causing bites).
I know how crazy this sounds, but I feel like it relates somehow to when people say “It’s so cute i could eat it right up!” …but then again why do people say that, either? It’s weird too.
Anyone else have this urge? Any idea why it might exist?
Post # 3
Haha, guilty! SO often calls me his little attack dog because I threaten to bite a lot. But I also love being bitten during sex, so it goes both ways. No idea why, I just like the way it feels – both to bite and to be bitten.
Post # 4
@joya_aspera: Anyone else have this urge? Any idea why it might exist?
I don’t know…I never have had it…are you getting enough to eat? 🙂
Post # 5
Yup, I’m a biter. My thought has always been that perhaps I’m a little sadistic. I try not to bite so hard that it hurts, but sometimes I do…
Post # 6
Yeah, we nibble on each other sometimes. I know what you mean. 🙂 But only very, very gently, of course. Neither of us is into pain, lol. But there is something erotic about teeth-to-skin contact sometimes.
Post # 7
um no can’t say that I do. I get the biting during sex thing but why on earth would you ever bite your dogs? Maybe Freud had it right and you have some sort of oral fixation.
Post # 8
@joya_aspera: OMG. I thought I was the only one! For me it isn’t a sexual thing….I have always liked to bite skin! I used to bite my dad on the shoulder all the time when I was a kid!
Now I always bite my fiance, and he gets SOOO mad. He obviously doesn’t have the same urges I do. Lol. So I bargain with him…you can have this, if I can bite you. HAHAHA.
Not going to lie. It’s weird. But nice to know I’m not alone!
Post # 10
@joya_aspera: OMG! I AM NOT THE ONLY ONE!
Hahaha, I’ve always been a biter. You can ask my family haha.
My FH is too – perfectionn really. We are both biters with fuzzy earblobes. What an awesome couple lol.
Post # 11
Because they are so cute? (I know that’s not a logical reason, but I just don’t have one.) It’s more like a fake bite and going “om nom nom” with them…
Post # 12
lol, I bite my puppy. He doesn’t mind. I can’t say I have bit my Fiance though…Maybe I will!
I thought this thread was going to be about nail biting! lol
Post # 13
oh thank god I’m not alone… although. I sometimes get carried away and want to bite more. no reason. just because. Fiance does too. He keeps telling me he wants to bite my toe off …. just because lol obviously wouldn’t actually. I sometimes feel the same about hes nose. Just because it is THERE. I’m weird.
Post # 14
I can’t say I have the urge to do this. Sometimes when I’m wrestling with my dogs I pretend to bite them, only because they play bite me. I don’t bite my Fiance though, haha
Post # 15
Dh likes to bite a little during sex and sometimes for fun outside of the bedroom. He doesn’t bite anything else other than that though…except food obviously.
Post # 16
My Fiance bites my butt every chance he can get! I bite him haha. and ya we both have bit our dog on the ear (playfully) when we are in play mode. She bears her teeth in play mode but never bites or nips really.