(Closed) BLOW JOB

posted 4 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 16
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2017

Always finish, always swallow, any time of the day. If it’s ever gross I just use mouthwash right after.

Fiance said he’s never enjoyed them before me because he always felt like they were being given out of duty or with the unspoken rule of “and now you better reciprocate OR ELSE”. I actually prefer to give them when he seems tired and probably would prefer it to sex, or when I’m on my period. Sometimes he’ll stop me before finishing if he is in the mood for sex though.

Post # 17
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Honey bee

anonp:  it has to be after a shower. I swallow. I mean it’s already in my mouth, why not? 😂

Post # 18
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Bumble bee

It’s weird, i don’t think the spit/swallow issue has ever really “come up” (*wink wink*) because it’s always at the back of my mouth/throat at that point and it just slips down without me having to make a decision or taste it much. It’d be much more gross at that point to spit it out as it’d have to go over my tongue… Bleugh. 

Then i gargle with mouthwash, or i get a scratchy throat. 

As for the “ikky penis” question, I’m always the one who initiates, he’s never *asked* me to do it or pushed me down there, so to be honest I’m usually only up for it if I know he’s showered recently. Nothing less sexy than a sweaty crotch. 

Post # 20
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Helper bee

anonp:  Just swallow…Stays in your mouth less time than the effort it takes to spit it out. Lol. Also, it’s sexier. Just hold your breath if the taste bothers you. Once it’s down, you really won’t taste much.

Post # 22
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Helper bee

anonp:  It’s a great feeling when you give that perfect bj. Trust me! The taste and texture really isn’t bad. Just take it slow and don’t force it too far down at first. And make sure your SO takes it easy. I’m assuming he’ll know it’s your first time? It won’t be awkward if it’s with someone you love and trust.

Post # 24
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Bumble Beekeeper

anonp:  Honestly, if you’re gonna do it to completion, swallowing is going to be easier/less unpleasant for you than spitting it out. The first time I ever gave a BJ, I spit, and it was foul cause it’s traveling into your mouth and then all the way back out…i.e., you’re tasting it twice. (I later learned that that particular bf just had funky tasting semen, barf.) 

In terms of whether to “warn” him beforehand…do whatever makes you comfortable. That said, I think the sexiest thing would be to not say a word. Then when he starts to pull back cause he’s about to come (I think you said in an earlier post he normally does this), indicate through your body language that you’re not finished down there yet. Guarantee he’s not going to protest lol. And then when he starts coming, just treat it like a popsicle (keep sucking until enough “juice” builds up that you need to swallow). I doubt its going to be a massive flood, just a few spurts, and you’ll barely taste it. It’s just warm liquid…shouldn’t really taste much like anything. It’s definitely a bizarre sensation at first, but trust me spitting it out is no less gross than swallowing it…swallowing is also a lot less dramatic lol than having him come and immediately jumping up like a maniac to run to the bathroom and spit it out.

Good luck, you got this! 

Post # 26
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2017 - Friendship Plaza

anonp:  I’m a texture freak too. I realized later in life that’s why I eat so fast/chew my food so quickly – it was a learned response to avoid how food feels in my mouth, so I really get where you’re coming from with that concern. As a PP said, I typically push (with my head) his dick to the back of my mouth when he comes, so that it just goes down my throat. I don’t taste it AT ALL. I mean – I’m ‘aware’ of how it feels in my throat, but that doesn’t bother me at all. I don’t particularly like it on my tongue (he really likes to ‘drip dry’ on my tongue), so if we’re doing that, I’m usually pleasuring myself and then I’m totally into it. In fact, 85% of the time I’m going down on him, I’m pleasuring myself – which amplifies the experience and makes it exciting for him. It’s not that I *have* to do it though, it’s just our thing.

You have lots of great advice in this thread. I definitely can chorus is on the notion that it not being a duty but a joy – I mean, it’s sexy, it’s powerful, it’s affectionate, it’s loving to give your partner pleasure – can really change your mindset up. Cum doesn’t really have a ‘taste’ per se – and while it does have a texture, you’ll figure out what works for you. I really prefer swallowing over anything else because (a) it’s so much neater and cleaner and (b) I imagine it’s the sexiest and feels best for him (though like other PPs he likes to do it on my boobs. P.S. if he asks to do it on your face? AVOID the EYES. NO BUENO!)

  • This reply was modified 3 years, 9 months ago by  thessely.
Post # 27
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Honey bee

anonp:  Honestly it doesn’t bother me. I do use mouth wash afterwards, but the taste goes away in a matter of seconds IMO.

Post # 29
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: City, State

don’t swallow, don’t spit it out as never let cum in my mouth. As for hygiene he has to wash it if he wants it lol.

I had also use flavoured willy lick and popping candy while doing it as I hate giving bjs, so makes it abit more enjoyable for me hehe.

Post # 30
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2016

I always swallow for the same reason as it takes more effort to spit it out.

Now this is weird- my Fiance and I have a very weird sex life because for some reason I am not sexual at all BUT even in the four years we have been together he has never let me give him a BJ- I’ve always found it so strange because he is very into sex. 

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