- 7 years ago
- Wedding: October 2011
I feel like I’ve already overloaded my best friend with complaints about my day, so hopefully everyone doesn’t mind if I finish off my complaints here. 🙂
So, today like every other day at work this week was long and I didn’t have much of a break. But, that’s not terrible in and of itself because it wasn’t anything super stressful. Just busy. I get out of work late (as usual) but not as late as other times. And my fiance was supposed to be home because he got out of work early today. I especially needed him home because I misplaced my keys and have been borrowing his, but because he was going to be home I gave them back. So, I get out of work and he’s not home. He’s not going to be home for at least an hour. (I work abou 20 minutes from home). But, okay whatever. I kill time elsewhere, it’s fine.
On my way home, a car rear ends me. Luckily no injuries or anything, just a strange damage to our car (the license plate frame and screws made a mark on the bumper. Kind of funny actually). Though I guess because I was shaken up a bit, I didn’t do everything properly–didn’t call the police, didn’t get other person’s telephone number, didn’t copy down the insurance company right. So, I get home and fiance who is already stressed about his day gets upset with me for doing so much stuff wrong. He really doesn’t ever get upset with me and is honestly more of my support. So that made it all worse, having him be upset because of the things I forgot, having him make unhelpful comments while I was on the phone with the insurance company, and making upset noises when he realized the things I forgot to get. (It also didn’t help that when our neighbor came down, he said in an attempt at a quiet voice, yeah she forgot this this and that. Which just made me feel worse). But, luckily insurance company got figured out, claim was filed, whatever. We moved on.
But, then just to top off my night…I had emailed some people who hadn’t yet RSVPed (due date was last Friday) to find out if they were coming. One friend who is supposed to sing our first dance song, who has known about our wedding for a whole long time, who knows the date and has known the date for a whole long time, told me she’s not sure she can come because she works weekends and doesn’t know if someone can cover her. Yes, I can understand the challenge in that, though she has known about the wedding date and day for a long time…when she first got her job, when her job switched to weekends only, and the multiple times I said something about her getting the day off. And yeah I mean that in and of itself probably wouldn’t have bothered me so much if the day hadn’t been as lame as it already had been. But that just topped it off and got me feeling sad and upset about our friendship in general, and all that stuff.
So, that’s my lame day. I’m hoping tomorrow is better. Thanks for letting me vent a bit.