Post # 1
Member
194 posts
Blushing bee
My friend outed one of our other close friends, telling me that she is pregnant but that its hush hush as hasnt reached that “safe” time when people usually annouce . I chose not to respond as it wasnt really her news to tell me and i was kind of annoyed. Then the next time i saw he she bought it up again and went on to say she almost miscarried.
At what point would she think its ok to tell this special news without consent!!
Post # 2
Member
1838 posts
Buzzing bee
Whoa, that’s messed up.
If I were in your spot, I don’t think I would let this slide. At the very least I’d say, “Don’t tell me anymore details of so-and-so’s pregnancy. If she wanted me to know, she’d tell me herself.”
The bright side is that you now know she can’t be trusted with information like this.
Post # 3
Member
31 posts
Newbee
I very much agree with the PP! She revealed her lack of ability to be trusted. I’m sorry she put you in such an awkward position.
Post # 4
Member
7553 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
Yeah I agree with the PP’s. I would ask her not to tell me news that wasn’t hers to tell and say you want to be excited when your friend reveals it to you herself. That’s a super lame move that your friend pulled.