- 7 years ago
- Wedding: November 2011
So, my Fiance and I just found out his sister is pregnant, 6 months pregnant, just now finding out, from Facebook. She just turned 20 and her Boyfriend or Best Friend is a huge dirtbag. The only person she has told is her mom. His sister does not make an effort to talk to anyone and yet she told their mom that she was going to tell my Fiance. We just spent over an hour on the phone with their mom and she said she was going to tell us. I don’t know how many times we had to keep telling her it was not her job to tell people. It would be nice if his sister would make an effort to talk to her family, she is nervous and scared to tell people and we understand completely but if she would communicate with her family then she wouldn’t have such a hard time with this. The thing that is worrying me the most is how their dad is going to handle this. She has not talked to him in probably 3 years, he makes an effort, she definitely does not. He asks about her all the time (we never know whats going on with her). If she would call up her dad and just say something like “I just wanted to tell you before you found out from someone else”, I think it would help their relationship a ton. If she doesn’t do it for herself, she should at least do it for her baby.
This is going to be an interesting adventure……