(Closed) BM already planning her pregnancy

posted 8 years ago in Babies
Post # 3
Member
5823 posts
Bee Keeper

Oh!  Don’t let someone else’s life decisions affect yours!  You have a plan for you.  You’ve considered everything, and you’re making it work within the constraints of your life and desires.  Some people want to get pregnant on the honeymoon, and some people don’t want kids…ever.  Both are fine!  Don’t feel guilty about not sharing her views!

Post # 4
Member
626 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2009

I think it’s super common for us to want to wait a while to have kids.  I was definitely in your boat.  I planned to wait a year, or two, or three.. lol.. before we had kids.  In my friend group I’m the only one who has kids.  Luckily my older sister has a baby and so do all of her friends.  Otherwise, I would have been totally alone!

Take your time… you have the rest of your life…

Post # 5
Member
1371 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

Don’t feel pressured to have kids because other people are ready!  It’s such a personal choice.  You shouldn’t feel guilty at all.  I know it can be tough with friends sometimes though.  Follow your own feelings rather than your friends’ choices.

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