(Closed) BM Attire Driving Me Batty

posted 5 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
1589 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

Ohh that’s a tough one! I prefer long and when I was texting my bff (an incredible MOH) she said something about how she prefers short dresses b/c she’s short. I forget when, but at some point I pretty much said that I prefer long b/c it’s more formal. I mean let’s face it, the girl didn’t wear a short wedding dress or prom dress! I just had her and my sister, and I kind of let them pick, but she ended up going with that one which my sister actually picked. I think they weren’t into the different dresses thing even though I was. 

So for your friend, I think I can assume she doesn’t wear long dresses to casual gatherings or other people’s weddings! You should just say you want short dresses. 

Normally I hate when brides pick a certain kind of shoe, or hinder a certain kind of shoe, but you can’t get more flexible than “dressy and black.” And cowboy boots? Meh. We have people in my circle who joke about wearing cowboy boots. (Weddings are usually formal here). 

I think you’re going to have to just text or email that, like you suggested. You can offer to go shopping with them again if they want. Maybe give them a color swatch. 

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