(Closed) BM changed her mind on her dress… Help! Pics.

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
  • poll: Is my BM crazy or what?
    Girl's crazy : (36 votes)
    90 %
    Idk.. She is paying for her dress : (4 votes)
    10 %
    You're a Bride on the verge of Bridezilla : (0 votes)
  • Post # 3
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: October 2015

    I think you should just tell her that since everyone’s already decided to match, she has  to stick with the original dress. I don’t think that’s too much to ask. (I think the original dress is also nicer)

    Post # 4
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: August 1993

    I agree fully with PP. She had her chance and it’s long gone. You’ve all ordered, so she’ll have to suck it up. It would look odd if her’s was different. 

    Post # 6
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    4653 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    If the dresses are ordered and she didnt speak up when she had the chance its too late now! And the 1st one looks so much better anyways!

    Post # 7
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: October 2015

    @Kim2274:  No, you are far from a bridezilla. This is a totally reasonable request.

    Post # 8
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: June 2010

    @Kim2274:  I feel your frustration – My Maid/Matron of Honor went out the morning of my wedding and bought a new dress without telling me until it was nearly time to get ready. How that’s a good thing to spring on a bride on her wedding day I will never know but she was much more comfortable in her dress, it was beautiful on her and I didn’t care if they matched. However I only had two girls. If your Bridesmaid or Best Man wore a different dress and stood out she would look like a Maid/Matron of Honor or someone special in the wedding party. I LOVE the first dress you chose and after all it is your wedding day so I think you should say what you want.

    Post # 10
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    Newbee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    @bali_y:  Oh god girl what a suprise! I’m so impressed with you keeping your cool! 

     

    Yeah, I couldn’t agree more with you guys, she had her chance to speak out and lost it. In her defense, I’m sure she has no clue what it’s like to be under so much pressure. Maybe to her it seems like it’s no big deal, but she’s not looking at the bigger picture (and the mountain of stress) that you’re no doubt gracefully balancing. 

    Post # 11
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    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: December 2010

    The only way it would be acceptable is if she was the maid of honor and since she isn’t, tough luck. 

    Post # 12
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    Agree!! Who wouldnt?? It’s completely unreasonable for ONLY 1 bridesmaid to be dressed differently unless she is the Maid/Matron of Honor and you want her to specifically stand out. 

    My BMs will all be waring different dresses, but just one? It won’t look good. it’ll be strange. 

    Ps. The first dress is so much prettier also, why on earth would she want to change it? 

     

    Post # 13
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2010

    It’s her bad for not speaking up when she had the chance. It’s too late! She has to deal with it OR convince the others to change their orders on HER OWN and let her see how nice the other BMs can be with their replies (especially if there’s extra fees).

    Post # 14
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    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: December 2012

    @Vitsippa:  BRILLIANT idea! Yeah, if she’s causing you a headache let her deal with a headache of her own

    Post # 15
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    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: December 2012

    P.S. The first dress is gorgeous and the second wouldn’t really match with it. 

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