(Closed) BM depression…slightly long

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
Member
472 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2010 - Ladder 15 Restaurant

missplanner, I’m not sure what the background is for this friend of yours, but I think you definitely deserve to have a bridesmaid who will be there for you!  Why are only your fi’s friends on your side, anyway?  It’s your decision who will stand up with you during your wedding, and I think you should choose what’s right for you.  If your friend will be genuinely excited for you and helpful, it sounds like she’d be a great choice for your Maid/Matron of Honor.

And maybe try talking to the other girls in your party…exchange emails with them and try to involve them more…maybe the more you put yourself out there, the more they’ll be excited for you!  And they definitely owe you a little excitement if you’re paying for their trip!!

Post # 5
Hostess
18643 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

I would try and talk to this girl.  If she wasn’t a liar and twofaced with you like the rest of them, then maybe she isn’t as horrible a friend as you remember.  You need to have someone who is excited and will talk to you about the wedding!

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