BM drama

posted 3 years ago in St. Louis and Southern Illinois
Post # 2
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1061 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2014 - Loft

I didn’t know you could get married  in high school. 

Post # 3
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2474 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2017

What has she explicitly done that’s been rude?

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee

She doesn’t instantly like your FB or IG pics? Bitch doesn’t deserve to be breathing the same air as you. 

I’d slash her tires then spread nasty rumors on social media about her and her new best friend, Chlamydia. 

Post # 5
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1382 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

KThutt:  I don’t know why you would ask her to be MOH if she’s just being rude to you? Why put yourself into a position where it would be easy for her to create more drama if she has the urge? And what kind of ‘best friend’ would be so rude to you as to tell you to break up with someone because ‘they take up too much of your time’? 

Could it also be that she’s in post wedding blues, you’re in pre wedding bliss, and she’s not really being mean, you’re just over the moon, and she just doesn’t have the energy to be as excited as you are? How often are you talking about your wedding? If it’s constant, I don’t blame her for not wanting to hear about it. 

Post # 7
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1995 posts
Buzzing bee

KThutt: I’m sorry your friend has been rude to you. I think maybe you need to talk to her and figure out what’s going on. But, from what I understand now, I think your friendship needs to be reevaluated.

Post # 9
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Blushing bee

Why do you need a maid of honor and a matron of honor? Or is that a typo?

I think you need to relax and deal with the fact that you’re both having “your special time” at the same time as each other. I’m sure she wants attention on her right now, as I’m sure part of you wants the same. Maybe accept that she could be just a regular bridesmaid and then don’t include her on as many details (does a bridesmaid need to know who all your vendors are? Probably not).

Women get weird about their weddings. You clearly don’t understand that she may not want to constantly hear about your wedding when she’s trying to revel in her own wedding ray of sunshine.

Post # 10
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Sugar bee

KThutt:  Honestly, if you’ve already asked someone to be a Maid of Honor she probably thinks she’s out of the running and is hurt. Does she have any idea that you’re considering having a Matron of Honor as well?

I’m accustomed to only having one MoH, and maybe she is too, so since you’ve chosen that girl she probably thinks she won’t get to be MoH and her feelings are hurt.

Post # 11
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

everyone is going to think that the stuff they chose is the best!  That is why I never asked opinions from people who are so snobbish that think that it is either their way or no way…. Isnt the point of getting married is to spend your life with your one and only. You do not need friends. Maid of honour? matron of honour? bridesmaids? arent they all the same at the wedding? I dont get the point….My sister is supposedly maid of honour because she is my sister but I dont know what she is going to do more than my other 2 bridesmaid…also, I dont expect her or any other bridesmaid to do anything for me or the wedding.  I just bother them with their dress, praying that they dont get really deep tan lines that I cant cover up and thats it.  Whenever my sister is at home I bother her to help me with some DIY and sometimes she comes along at some appointments because she wants to but that is about it.

  • This reply was modified 2 years, 11 months ago by  niki2015.
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