(Closed) BM dress NIGHTMARE, I feel like I am in a crisis

posted 9 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 5
2459 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

They should definately change the dress style considering the fact that it wont cost them anything if they don’t, get tough and ask to speak to a manager and tell them that you felt like you were railroaded into making a decision.

Post # 6
2779 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

I agree with simpleandchic. I also suggest going in and speaking to the manager in person as you can (IMO) get points across better than over the phone. Let us know what happens!

Post # 7
435 posts
Helper bee

I don’t think any contract is valid until 3 days after it is signed, not including weekends.  I think you can cancel any contract for those three days.  Maybe someone knows if this is true in your state.

Post # 8
139 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I really don’t know if they will do this. It might depend on whether they have sent the order to the manufacturer already. Maybe if you mention that you felt overwhelmed and under pressure due to how busy it was they would be helpful?

Post # 9
1045 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2008

Since they haven’t placed the order yet, I don’t see why this would be a problem.  I would just call them and say that while you’re waiting until the last Bridesmaid or Best Man puts down her deposit, you need to make a couple of changes to the style numbers.  Don’t approach it as if they’re doing you some huge favor– this is a really simple switch if they haven’t placed any orders.

Post # 10
168 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

If they were that busy I highly doubt they have started the paperwork end of the sale. I agree that you should calmly say that you want to make some changes to the order. If the saleswomen refuses than you can ask to speak to the manager. If that doesn’t work you can always as a last resort have all your BM’s put a stop pay on the checks/cards. Not the easy way but at least you won’t be stuck with dresses you all hate.

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