Post # 1
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53 posts
Worker bee
I sent my BMs (I have 4) 5 dresses to choose from. I told them that I liked the look of the mis-matched but wouldn’t care if they all chose the same dress.
Two of them chose the same dress (One girl with straps, the other without), one said she doesn’t care and the other doesn’t talk to me, so I don’t know what her thoughts are.
I’m okay with two same and two different, especially since the two that are the same are different as one is with straps and one without. But should I tell the other two that I would prefer them to wear the same dress? Or should I tell them that dress is off the table and to choose a different one?
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
If I could go back… (and if my budget allowed) I would definitely have my BMs in different dresses!!! I love the look of it and they are able to get dresses that they are most comfortable in!
Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
Okay so two girls each liked different dresses, and two girls like the same dress? I would just let everyone wear what they like. You’ll still have three different dresses on display. I would let them know they chose so the same dress incase they want to change. But if they don’t care, then just go with it.
Post # 5
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53 posts
Worker bee
@JrzyGurl: No, two girls liked the same dress and two girls don’t care. So the decision is up to me. I wanted them to make the decision, but they don’t care and want me to make the decision. That’s why I’m not sure what to do. Should I
make them choose one of the other dresses, or just tell them to wear the same as the other girls?
Also, the two know they chose the same dress.
Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
@Stressed_Bride15: I would let them chose their dresses. I love the idea of mismatch. Send them the links to the options and ask everyone else to send you back their pick. If two are the same its no big deal. Let the other two know that they should pikc a dress different then the one the other girls picked. Unless that is also their first choice. But I doubt it is.
Post # 7
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Bumble bee
I would let them pick. It will still look cool in pics.
Post # 8
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Bumble bee
I would let them pick. It will still look cool in pics.