(Closed) BM/ friend VENT!

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
Member
104 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

Ughhhhh she sounds so annoying! I recently posted about my friend bailing on me for something and she sounds so similar to this friend. I really think some people just don’t appreciate others how we appreciate them. I also feel like when a friend is helping another friend with wedding stuff, they can get really jealous. As if because they haven’t gotten to that point in their life yet then they aren’t sure how to just be HAPPY for us.

I know I would never treat my friends like this and it sucks some of us have to deal with our friends being this way.

Maybe you can talk to her, just tell her that you aren’t sure why you help her out and then when you really need her support she isn’t there for you.. it’s not fair.

Post # 4
Member
1489 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@MrsNeutrino: I dont think it is too much to ask a friend to be there for you but it sounds like everyone has been catering to her for a long time and she knows no different so she will continue to do this

 

Post # 5
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46336 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

People can only take advantage of you to the extent that you let them.

Is her friendship adding to your life or taking a toll on you?

Post # 6
Member
2539 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

she is a toxic friend and someone that you should not be around! you dont need some one like that in your life. yuo are already dealing with some much!

Post # 8
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104 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

Yea just talk to her and see what happens. Maybe she didn’t think what she did was that big of a deal. I think some people don’t notice what they do wrong until you point it out for them. So frustrating!

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