- 7 years ago
Ok so I have been very lucky to have really great friends in my life… but one Bridesmaid or Best Man..and good friend of mine keeps turning me sour. This has happened once before in my life with a girl I knew since childhood and I kept letting things go and letting them go until finally I stopped trying with her and purged her from my life.. I always think.. omg.. how did I waste 20something years being this girl’s friend!? I never want to waste time on a person like that ever again. That brings me to my current friend. There have been a couple instances of her being a flake. She is one of those… when I am with my Boyfriend or Best Friend I forget my friends..type of girls. So that has caused her to flake quite often. It seems like she only is “present” when she needs something or when her and her bf break up (and she needs support). Last weekend.. she was throwing a baby shower for one of her co-workers. I Literally did EVERYTHING for her.. I let her borrow my candy jars to do a candy bar (her guests broke 2 of them) I blew up ALL of the balloons… I found and tied ribbons on all of the favors.. I personally hung all of MY lanterns that I let her borrow.. I made a day of plan.. I helped her execute the games.. the only thing was.. She helped me hang the streamers and I had nothing to do with the cake.. and she sprinkled some confetti around. I put together the gift bags even! So when I say I did everything for her for 2 days.. I really mean it.. EVERYTHING . While i was at her house.. i got a call from the state attorney saying I had to be in court for something reguarding a domestic violence event that I was a part of. (My ex cut me in the head with a razor and I reported him and got a restraining order. He then violated the no contact order and now I have to go in and tell them because he called from a blocked number). I asked my friend to come with me because I really need some support… not for her to do anything for me.. just to have a familiar face in the room you know? Just a little comfort. She agrees. The case is on friday. She texts me today saying that she made an appointment to see an advisor at school for the time I need to be at court and that she wont be able to come. Is it just me or do people not appreciate their friends??? I am not saying that I did anything because I wanted anything from her.. but I like to be treated how I treat people… and so far she has not been doing a great job. Whenever we do wedding stuff…she talks about how HER wedding will be.. what HER tables would look like… HOW I CAN’T USE PINK BECAUSE SHE WANTS TO USE PINK FOR HER BRIDAL SHOWER!!! I almost smacked her 😐 Apart from just having a second to be happy for my wedding stuff before I can be happy about your ideas.. I just need my friends to be there sometimes. Is that too much to ask? To add insult to injury.. the suit I am going to wear on Friday.. SHE HAS THE JACKET TO. just kill me someone.. please!