(Closed) BM gift idea…second thoughts!!

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
108 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: January 2013

I think it is a great idea! Something different other than the same old things you find for bridal party gifts. I wouldn’t worry, I would love one of these pens and I’m sure your BM’s will too!

Post # 4
519 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

They’re cute. I’ve always like pens and pencils and stationery. Back to school shopping was the best! But I lose pens all the time.


I honestly don’t think anyone really cares that much about Bridesmaid or Best Man gifts. My mom was talking about gifts that she’s received for being in weddings and it’s always “yeah, it’s packed up somewhere.” Before the wedding, I was talking to my 2 MOHs about the groom having a difficult time finding gifts for the groomsmen. One of my MOHs said “I think the idea of buying gifts for the wedding party is so stupid. Me being a part of your day is a gift enough.” My gifts to my MOHs were their dresses and their bouquets (used fake flowers, so they can keep them forever) andmy gifts to my other 3 BMs (all 12 and under) were just their bouquets. And my flower girl? Her veil, dress, and the treat bag I made her. =) 

I guess it depends on your group of friends. Mine wouldn’t have expected anything, and if I had given them something extra on top of their dresses, I would not have given any of them pens, but that’s because I know my girls. And I’m sure you know yours. If you think they will like pens, I’m sure they will. But I think the thought is what matters.


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