(Closed) BM gifts – etiquette question

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 2
3273 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

If you give it to them all together, at the same time, then yes. If you take each above and beyond lady out for a cup of coffee and give the extra gift then, I think you’re fine.

Post # 3
151 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: January 2015

I agree with PP – just give the gift separately (maybe a few days before the other gifts?) 

Post # 4
30393 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

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baileyjosephine:  I think your plan is fine but I would give them the extra gifts privately.

Post # 5
584 posts
Busy bee

I would not give the extras to your “above and beyond” bridesmaids at the same time as the others – especially since a $100-200 extra gift will stand out a LOT.  Give the similar gifts to everyone at once, and the other gifts separately.

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