(Closed) BM hair- can i decide

posted 7 years ago in Beauty
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Sure you can, especially if you are paying.

Post # 4
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2682 posts
Sugar bee

If you are paying for I think you can decide how you want their hair to be.  Or at least give them a guideline (all up, half up, etc)

Post # 5
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

Yeah, if you’re paying I think it’s fine to have their hair fit the look you are trying to create.

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

Absolutely. If you’re paying you can decide!

I’m telling my girls their hair has to be in a low bun if it’s below their shoulders (and I’m paying for it!). It doesn’t have to be professionally done though, and several of us are pros and low buns 🙂

Post # 7
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

definately especially if its complicated and you are paying. if you werent paying i would suggest a style like “half up half down” or “all down” etc.

Post # 8
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Sugar bee

If you’re paying I’d tend to say yes, but if it is something that they absolutely HATE then I’d try to pick something else.

Post # 9
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I’ve been in my share of weddings and honestly, I really haven’t liked being told how my hair needs to be done.  There are some styles that I just don’t like on me and make me feel quite self-conscious, i.e. most up-do’s.  General ‘guidelines’ are alright, but a pre-planned style would kind of tick me off.  (sorry!)

Post # 10
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

@SLS79…I agree. There are some styles that I don’t think are flattering on me…and that I don’t particularly like. Like you, I don’t mind guidelines, but I would prefer to pick my own style…even if I have to pay for it.

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