(Closed) BM Handbook

posted 10 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 4
2434 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2008

Hmm.  There’s lots of stuff:

host/help with the shower

plan the bachelorette

shop for Bridesmaid or Best Man dresses

attend a bride’s final fitting (to learn how to bustle the dress)

buffer drama for the bride (BM squabbles, stuff that goes wrong on the wedding day, etc)

be ready in advance of the bride to help her get into her dress


Post # 5
606 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

Be calm…

Keep weird relatives (my mom) out of my hair…

Help me with DIY before the wedding!! You mention DIY and they all disappear! lol

This is a greally good question, Lillindy!

Post # 6
2000 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2009

The best thing my BMs have done for me is be willing to listen/put up with my wedding talk 24/7. I mostly just need people to hug me when I’m freaking out … and occassionally some extra hands for DIY projects.

I promise to have more productive feedback on the BMs’ duties post-wedding!

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