(Closed) BM hard to keep in touch with… now what?

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
3255 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

@seahorsey: One of my BMs was working full-time and going to school part-time, so she literally had no time to devote to helping with wedding stuff. She was really happy for me, but she didn’t help with anything. Her involvement was limited to basically showing up to the wedding. However, I knew that when I asked her to be a Bridesmaid or Best Man, so I wasn’t upset about it. You just have to make sure you’re totally okay with her not being that involved; it won’t be fair for you to get angry with her about it down the road if she really can’t commit much time to it.

Post # 4
2158 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I wouldn’t worry about it this early in the game. She is in a different city so it’s understandable that she won’t be able to do as much as everyone else, but as long as you tell her times/plans way ahead of time and work it out with her I’m sure it will all work out fine.

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