(Closed) BM in a car accident and you won't believe what her SO is saying…

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 4
6891 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2012

Uh, to leave the idiot.

I know that people always say to stay out of people’s relationships, but if my best friend were in a situation like this you best believe I would say, “And you’re still dating him? Why?”

Post # 5
1935 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

@Galang_Gyal:  I dont think her family is going to like him any more after he didnt come visit… definitely didn’t help out his cause. 

What a total jerk. 4 years, you say? I’d dump his ass. 

Post # 6
916 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@Galang_Gyal:  Yeah. At the very least she should take a break from the jerk.

Post # 7
1487 posts
Bumble bee

@Galang_Gyal:  breakupsville for sure. Didnt check in on her in the hospital?? No wonder her family doesn’t like Him. He sounds selfish

Post # 8
2418 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

I would be gone like the wind. She shouldn’t have had to say anything to him about going to visit her. He just should have done it. And he wonders why her family doesn’t like him..

Post # 9
794 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2015 - Backyard Forest

You can’t really intervene. Every time I’ve ever spoke up about a bad boyfriend it always got me in trouble or led to the boyfriend hating me (because when they make up they tell their boyfriend what you said). 

She has to get there on her own. I think it’s grounds for a serious evaluation of the relationship – you need someone that is going to be completely supportive of you. 

Post # 11
4857 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013


Years ago I was dating a guy and landed in hospital with a severe virus/illness. It went on for 3 months. I was in the ER 4 times or so. 

One time it flared up and I had to get to the hospital. My Boyfriend or Best Friend at the time drove me

AND DITCHED ME THERE. How the f was I supposed to get home? 

He didn’t even call me later to see how I was doing.


No. no no no no. Fuck that. I should have dumped him immediatley. Guys like this are  douche bags. 

Post # 13
2685 posts
Sugar bee

WTF?!  That is so messed up.  Your friend may have had minor injuries, but she still needed emotional support from her loved ones.  Maybe it’s true that she never asked him to come over – there’s always more than 1 side to a story.  But you know what?  That would not have stopped me from being there for my SO.  I would not have hesitated for a second to be with my Fiance if the same thing happened to him.  I would tell your friend that there is no excuse for an unsupportive SO and that she is not blowing things out of proportion.  She’ll have to decide for herself, but it sounds like this would be a good time for her to move on.

Post # 14
2854 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

Ugh…that’s pretty terrible. I got in a car accident when I was in high school, and my Boyfriend or Best Friend at the time didn’t check up on me at all. I wasn’t in the hosital, but STILL! We broke up a few days later.


Post # 16
4524 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

He’s a loser 

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