(Closed) BM in the same shoes?

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
5889 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2012

no one ever notices the bridesmaid shoes.  i think if you tell them what color family and shoe style you want, then you’ve got your bases covered.  if you do make them all get the same shoes, i think etiquette dictates that you should pay for them yourself.  (just as it is with mandating same hairstyles, etc)

i really wouldn’t worry about it!

Post # 4
2600 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

I wouldn’t worry about it, either.  Too much other stuff to worry about 🙂

Post # 5
883 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

IMO if it is a full length dresses it doesn’t matter at all. If it is short dresses it only matters that they aren’t drastically different colors or styles.

My girls are ending up with the exact same shoe because they both chose it when we went shopping together. All I told them was I wanted silver shoes. 

Post # 7
3758 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I am going to tell them I would prefer they wear white or silver shoes but if they don’t have those, I would be okay with black. Most people have either white silver of black dress shoes right? lol

Post # 9
220 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Mine are having similar colour and style of shoes but each chose slightly different ones – it’s no problem at all I don’t think.

Post # 10
45 posts
  • Wedding: April 2015

I just told mine to pick what they wanted, but they had to be black.   ones in flats, ones in sparkly stilettos. haha

Post # 11
248 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

My girls all wore different gray or silver shoes and they all picked something that they loved so I was happy! 

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