(Closed) BM just backed out of wedding and am bummed :(

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
521 posts
Busy bee

Sorry her situation has changed. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with asking a new bm, or with leaving it at the ones you have left. Do what feels right to you.

Post # 4
523 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Ahh. Sorry this happened to you. That means you now have an extra guy, right? Well, if you have someone you can replace her with then you should.I know its not the same, but at least she has a good reason for not being able to make it. There are some stories on here that – wouldn’t wish on any bride ever. Maybe you guys can have a special day together before she leaves.

Post # 5
3125 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

If you have a friend you would want to ask, i say do it and explain the situation. otherwise, go with the uneven sides. but do learn from my mistake – i had a Bridesmaid or Best Man drop, and it left our sides uneven. It didn’t bother me, but i found out it made the groomsmen that didn’t specifically escort a Groomsmen feel left out ๐Ÿ™ She’s not his favorite person.

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