Post # 1
I live in CA & have 4 bridesmaids. One Bridesmaid or Best Man lives in FL (my best friend), one lives in MI (my sister), and the other 2 live here locally (FI sisters). My Fiance has 3 groomsmen who live locally. Yes…. we talked about our wedding party before getting engaged & picked out 4 & 4 but after getting engaged, Fiance didn’t want to ask one guy anymore but I had already asked my 4 girls.. oh well
I made my best friend & FI’s sister co-MOH’s so that my best friend could be one & I would have someone here locally to help with everything (she is a good friend too).
The order of the groomsmen is #1 best friend, #2 good friend, #3 FI’s brother.
So question is.. bridesmaid order? #3 is my sister & #4 is other FI’s sister. Should I have my best friend be #1 or my local co-MOH? I feel like the local Maid/Matron of Honor should be because she’s helping me with so much that best friend can’t. But then I feel like best friend Maid/Matron of Honor should be because we always said we’d be each others MOH’s… and she’s my best friend.. hmmm AH!
Oh and how would you suggest the walking order? #1 with #1, #2 with #2, #3 &4 with #3 –or– #1 &2 with #1, #3 with #2, #4, with #3
Haha did that make sense?
Post # 3
I also have 2 MOHs, one local and one not. I’m going to have the local one walk in last and stand right next to me so that she can fix my dress when need be. Since she is the one going to fittings with me, she is the one I am putting in charge of the dress.
For the walking order, I think it would be kind of cute if his best man walked with both of your MOHs 🙂
Post # 4
yeah that’s what i was thinking too about the walking order. thanks
Post # 5
We kinda had to do a mix up. I have a Matron and Maid of honor (one local one where the wedding is). Problem is my Fiance also has 2 best men. Guy #3 though is my Matron of Honors husband. We are going to ask the second best man to stand third, so Groomsmen #3 can be second and walk with his wife.
#1 & #1
#2 & #3
#3 & #2
Post # 6
ah i see. Yeah I’m glad none of our wedding party has their significant other in the wedding party as well. It makes it easier to just have them walk down with someone 😛
Post # 7
no other opinions/ suggestions/ reasons why you voted whichever way? i’m really stuck on who to have stand next to me..
Oh my best friend in FL has been my friend for.. 20 yrs now & was my first friend in KG