(Closed) BM planning bachelorette… thoughts?

posted 4 years ago in Parties
Post # 2
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2517 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2015

witchbaby:  If it were me, I’d take over and plan it.  MOH doesn’t appear to be interested in doing this and I’d want to be sure my friend got some parties to celebrate her.  If the Maid/Matron of Honor gets her panties in a twist, she should have stepped up earlier!

 

Post # 3
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1954 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

I planned a bachelorette as a bridesmaid last summer. The Maid/Matron of Honor was semi-involved, but I did all of the legwork for figuring out where, when, communicating with the guests, organizing activities. I kept the Maid/Matron of Honor appraised of what was happening, but I did it all myself. She had other stuff going on so she didn’t mind at all, and the bride was grateful that I stepped up to help. If the Maid/Matron of Honor isnt interested, you aren’t stepping on any toes. Just let her know what you are doing along the way and see if she wants input. If she doesn’t, just do it all yourself if you know what the bride wants. 

Post # 4
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Bumble bee

witchbaby:  I’m assuming your closer to the bride than the Maid/Matron of Honor so I’d go with doing what you think would make the bride happy but try and involve the Maid/Matron of Honor as much as you can e.g. I’m thinking of booking a table at x or y which do uou think your sister would prefer? Etc

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