(Closed) BM planning bachelorette… thoughts?

posted 3 years ago in Parties
Post # 2
2523 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2015

witchbaby:  If it were me, I’d take over and plan it.  MOH doesn’t appear to be interested in doing this and I’d want to be sure my friend got some parties to celebrate her.  If the MOH gets her panties in a twist, she should have stepped up earlier!


Post # 3
1736 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

I planned a bachelorette as a bridesmaid last summer. The MOH was semi-involved, but I did all of the legwork for figuring out where, when, communicating with the guests, organizing activities. I kept the MOH appraised of what was happening, but I did it all myself. She had other stuff going on so she didn’t mind at all, and the bride was grateful that I stepped up to help. If the MOH isnt interested, you aren’t stepping on any toes. Just let her know what you are doing along the way and see if she wants input. If she doesn’t, just do it all yourself if you know what the bride wants. 

Post # 4
1170 posts
Bumble bee

witchbaby:  I’m assuming your closer to the bride than the MOH so I’d go with doing what you think would make the bride happy but try and involve the MOH as much as you can e.g. I’m thinking of booking a table at x or y which do uou think your sister would prefer? Etc

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