BM spoke poorly of my friends.

posted 1 year ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 2
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2019

She sounds incredibly shallow. Please stand up for your friends. Clearly this woman has no idea what it takes to be a mom and has her priorities all wrong.

Post # 3
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687 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2018

Yes, let her know that you don’t appreciate such comments and you certainly don’t agree with them.

Post # 5
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812 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2018 - Farm

SittingWaitingWishing :  She sounds really shallow, judgemental and apparently feels like she is better than them to an extent. My question is why did she feel so comfortable coming to you and talking to you about your other friends like that? Does she think you would feel the same way or on her side about this? She came to you for a reason and it wasn’t a good reason. Maybe she doesn’t see the value in your friendship with these ladies that you do. Whatever her reasons for judging them is it’s not cool. Not everyone is into botox and getting fillers to make themselves feel better about their appearance. 

 

You need to address it and make it clear to her that you will not tolerate her talking about your friends like that Make sure she knows you didn’t agree with her because maybe she thought the two of you would see eye to eye on it. Is she really a friend though? 

Post # 7
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812 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2018 - Farm

SittingWaitingWishing :  Maybe when you are together you can say do you remember when we had lunch and during the conversation you mentioned so and so? You have an issue with their appearance. I never got to respond to what you said due to someone coming over to speak. I wanted to address what you said during that conversation. Maybe something like that. You may have to remind her of the conversation. 

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