(Closed) BM's ditching Bachelorette

posted 6 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
Member
341 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Wait is your bachelorette party on a weeknight?? (I cant tell, but it kinda sounds like it from the post) If it is, I know it completely sucks and I would be so so bummed too but its very understandable that so many girls are unable to make it.  It sounds like this was all thrown together last minute (correct me if I am wrong) On a positive note I think its really great your Bridesmaid or Best Man took the reins and planned one! Usually thats not the role of a Bridesmaid or Best Man so she sounds like an amazing friend.  I would go out with the two girls that can make it and I am sure you will have an awesome time!  

Maybe you could have a girls night out after the wedding so you can all get together?

 

Post # 4
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1038 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

 Like the other poster mentioned, is it on a weeknight?  No offense…but I wouldn’t likely go to a bachelorette party on a weeknight either.  Also, about your sister, are you thinking that 2 isn’t a lot of days to take off for your wedding??  How many vacation days does she get a year…that 2 could be days she could have taken off for an actual vacation for herself and not for your wedding.  

 

 

And…only thing they are obligated to attend is your wedding and the rehearsal. Just go and have fun with those that can make it.  I’m sure 9 days from your wedding you have bigger things to worry about than this. 

Post # 5
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6015 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: March 2012

It sucks when it doesn’t work out the way you hoped.  Try to have a good time with the people that did come and realize your other friends did have some valid excuses.  Seriously what is your Future Mother-In-Law on to think the night before the wedding is a good idea for a bachelorette party?  So her kid can be there and you can be all hung over for the b ig day .. um no.  

I’m out of work right now and if I didn’t live across the US from you I’d come throw back a few shots with ya…. well hell I can do that here LOL .. have a good night with the girls that do come!!

Post # 6
Member
774 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

It sucks, but I do you have any other girlfriends you could invite? Or your BM? Just dont worry about it and have fun!!

Post # 8
Hostess
1427 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

Confused….. like PP said… is your party on a weeknight?? or Sunday night??

Post # 9
Hostess
1427 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

Ahh… just saw your post! Just go out. Have a blast and enjoy yourself. 🙂

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