(Closed) BMs dont get on!

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

grr. That’s really frustrating 🙁 Sorry boo… it especially sucks when ppl hold grudges.

 

Also, what in the world is planking?!

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

Are you from the UK? You’re writing is very Brittish -I LOVE IT!

I was in a wedding party once where no one got along, but fortunately we were all grown up enough to know when we needed to just bite out tongues. Plus, we all really loved the bride.

You could talk to each gal on the side and just mention how much you appreciate their support and how you’ve always wondered how wedding parties work when you mix a bunch of people together who are so different. I wouldn’t bring up any specifics like “I know you and X don’t get along, but…” because it will just bring hostility up.

Try planning activities where you can do 1 on 1 things with them. I’m sure come the wedding day things will be fine. It would also be super helpful if you could outline everyone’s role in your wedding party.

One goof we had in the party I was in was that the Maid/Matron of Honor & the brides sister both felt they should be fixing her dress during the ceremony -it was rediculous, one would pull one way, one the other. Plus, Maid/Matron of Honor decided it was her job to get people for pictures -and was wandering around when she was needed most.

I’m sure everyone will come together for you on your big day!

Post # 6
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853 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

oh, ok… I’ve seen pictures. You’re right – it seems silly that they would argue over something so ridiculous 🙁

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

that is one of the most bizarre things to fight over, lol

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