(Closed) BMs not organising the hens?

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
123 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2015 - The Runnymede Hotel

@Jaxx90:  Sorry that’s happened 🙁


Unfortunately, I’ve always been under the impression that if your Maid of Honour/Chief Bridesmaid doesn’t organise a hen, you don’t have one. It’s a party they throw for you, not a party you throw for them. You’re organising a wedding, after all…

Post # 4
46 posts
  • Wedding: January 2014

@Jaxx90:  So sorry that this is happening to you! My sister/MOH is organizing mine. I said that I didn’t want to know anything but when it will be and what time.

Post # 5
8686 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

Nobody organized mine. I did it myself

Post # 6
2961 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013 - Wynn Las Vegas

My Maid/Matron of Honor put the organizing in motion, and my BMs stepped up. I guess that as you have no Maid/Matron of Honor there was no clear leader, and having the distance between everyone doesn’t help.

Post # 8
9044 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper

@Jaxx90:  A hen’s night is a gift, not a right. If someone doesn’t want to throw you one then unfortunately it is just tough luck.

They may also feel like you are pressuring them to hold on for you since you have asked them directly and sent them lists about it. This may have left a bad taste in their mouths.

Post # 9
123 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2015 - The Runnymede Hotel

@Jaxx90:  Yes, it is wrong to organise your own Hen’s… I wouldn’t, if I were you – just don’t have one at all. It sucks, but that’s the situation. 

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