(Closed) BMs sent shower invites with my wedding registry?

posted 7 years ago in Gifts and Registries
Post # 3
7587 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

Nope. You smile and appreciate the effort. They had the best intentions and isn’t it amazing that they are throwing you a shower when we see so many girls post about how they aren’t having one at all (just keep telling yourself this LOL)

Post # 4
578 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012


 That’s not tacky in my eyes!  People are suppose to love you and support not judge you right?  I think it’ll be fine.  I hate ettiquette and the “rules” of a wedding. Have a great time!

Post # 5
5786 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2011

Honestly, I’d say something to your friends just because as a guest I’d be confused if I got a shower invite listing a honeyfund registry. I’d prob end up getting you a gift card to macys or something.

Post # 6
827 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

Nope, because it’s NOT tacky.  My shower invites, sent out by my mom’s friends, had registry info.  I think it’s pretty standard.  Also, FI’s sister and many of my friends have used honeyfund and have loved it.  I see nothing wrong with it. 

Post # 7
2854 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

It’s a little late now, I wouldn’t worry about it. Honestly, I’ve received invites like that before and have never been offended.

Post # 8
569 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

Don’t worry about it. I wouldn’t be offended if I got an invite to a shower with a honeyfund registry.

Post # 9
1843 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I wouldn’t be offended if I received a honeyfund registry but I would be confused.  Isn’t the point of a shower to shower the couple with gifts?  So with a honeyfund registry, do they print out the certificate showing you what dollar amount they sent you or ???  I guess I honestly don’t know (I’ve never used that sort of registry).

Regardless, what’s done is done and there isn’t anything you can do about it now.  You could voice your concern to your Maid/Matron of Honor but at this point, it’s probably pointless (since they’ve already gone out).

Post # 10
3364 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

What can you do hun? lol

I wouldnt worry about it; at least its someone elses mistake! And HEY people might surprise you and think its something of the “new” in the wedding world lol

Post # 12
654 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Six years ago when my friend got married, they did a honeymoon registry.  No one had heard of this back then.  However, for her shower, I bought her something off the registry like a candlelit dinner or something and printed out the certificate for her to open.  It seemed to work fine back then and more people know about this stuff now.  You should be ok.

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