(Closed) BM’s @ the Shower?

posted 8 years ago in Parties
Post # 4
1684 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: February 2010

I don’t think I’ve ever been to a shower where the bridal party wasn’t invited. I would invite them to both but let them know that they do not have to give you two presents (one at each shower).

Post # 5
16214 posts
Honey Beekeeper

In talking with my friends who have been recently married, the BMs usually attended both showers (both family and friends, or both sides of the family). Do you think they’d have a problem with the rest of your BMs coming? (it’s only two more people?) I would have for your two non-MOH BMs to be left out!

Post # 6
832 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2010

i think its kind of rude that they didnt invite your BMs. Ive always heard of the BMs going to the showers, even if there’s more than one. However, i think since your girls will be attending the first shower & you have no control over who is invited to the second shower, your BMs will completely understand (:

Post # 7
4765 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 2011 - Vintage Villas

I would definitely think they should be invited to both! They’re your bridesmaids!

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