(Closed) BM's…….EEK!

posted 5 years ago in Bridesmaids
  • poll: Who to have???
    My cousin without FSIL : (3 votes)
    25 %
    FSIL without cousin : (4 votes)
    33 %
    Take friends out and have just family : (2 votes)
    17 %
    Other - explain : (3 votes)
    25 %
  • Post # 3
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    3039 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    I don’t think you should feel bad for not asking her to be a bridesmaid, but you could ask her to do something else. Perhaps she could do a reading or help people to find their seats. My little brother will play guitar during the wedding, do a reading in church and he’s responsible for the lawn games during the cocktail hour. So, he definitely feel included even though he’s not in the wedding party.

    Post # 4
    Member
    158 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    That’s tough. However, considring that you said your close to her, I don’t think you should leave her out. I wouldn’t cut out your cousin too. I know sometimes we get caught up in symmetry and being even on all sides, but later down the line, you’ll probably regret not putting either one in the wedding. Besides, how fun will that be having everyone you love in it?! Lots 🙂

    Post # 5
    Member
    927 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    You should include Future Sister-In-Law – marriage is a merging of families, if you have a good relationship with her, then you should absolutely include her!

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