(Closed) Body Image :/

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 4
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909 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

He likes what he sees. He wouldn’t be marrying you if he didn’t. 

Rock it, girl! Don’t give a second thought to your body once your clothes come off that first time with him. He loves you and he LOVES your body. You’ll enjoy it a helluva lot more if you’re not worrying! 

Post # 6
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853 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Unless you wear baggy clothing to the extreme, he’s a guy, which means his eyes are likely all over you – he can see what he’s getting himself into! Confidence is SEXY, so the more you have, the more desirable you’ll appear!

Post # 9
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652 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

He’s marrying you because he loves you (and that includes how you look naked too – regardless of if he’s seen it yet or not). My only suggestion is to have fun. If you focus on how much you’re enjoying things, you’ll forget about any insecurities.

Post # 10
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506 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Guys do not focus on all the dumb stuff we stress about! I was watching dr. Oz the other day and he was asking husbands of overweight wives (not saying you are, just using this for reference) to choose a description of a body type most like their wife’s body. All the guys choose much more flattering choices than the women expected. My point being, guys notice the good stuff!

Post # 12
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292 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

When I first got with SO I had this same problem. I do not really have the most amazing body in the world and I always felt so uncomfortable for the longest time. I would leave clothes on and make sure the lights were off so he couldnt look at me. I told him about this one day and he told me that if he didn’t like how I looked he wouldn’t be with me. This made me so much more comfortable around him. Just remember that your guy loves you for who you are and he wouldn’t be marrying you if he didn’t i’m sure he will love what he sees when he sees it. It also makes it a lot more enjoyable when you are not worrying about how you look =]

Post # 13
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7735 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I was in a similar situation. Especially I was conscious of my small boobs. (And still am a bit). I needn’t have worried. On my wedding night my husband was, um, obviously pleased with what he saw πŸ™‚ And many years later, he still is. In fact sometimes I wish he’d look less, but he seems to like it πŸ™‚

Post # 15
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1686 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Aw, sweetie. He’s going to be *so happy* don’t even worry. He loves you and he’s marrying you and he’s going to think you’re the most beautiful woman in the world.

Do you have any pretty wedding night lingerie picked out yet? πŸ™‚ 

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