(Closed) Body image issues? How long did it take you to “nude” up without blushing lol

posted 10 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 17
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

oh man.. this is tough. i actually haven’t been with my fiance yet, since we’re waiting. i am SO nervous. i know he loves me the way i am, but i seriously don’t want to be naked in front of him. maybe in the dark while i’m lying down.. ha. i want to be with him, of course. i just wish i could be clothed while it was happening.

Post # 18
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604 posts
Busy bee

The only person ive veen comfy with is my SO. I love my body so much more now that I am a bit older and can appreciate myself  for not just my body, but everything about me and my SO is amazing and so encouraging. He doesn’t care because he wouldn’t want someone to judge him on his body either. Altho I think he is so sexy lol 🙂

Post # 19
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

I had this one man tell me years ago…..if your thinking about YOU when we are in bed….I’m not doing my job! HMMMMMMMMMMMMMM makes sense! So now I think about how to do MY job! And my fear of being naked is gone! Then I’m feeling sexy!

Post # 20
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388 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

@Meowkers, that is so awesome and refreshing to hear, good for you!!!

Post # 21
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

Im pretty comfortable naked around Teddy…but when he starts whistling and going “ooooooo” in a sexy way I get kind of embarrassed! but for the most part im pretty ok with it 🙂

Post # 22
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Blushing bee

I’ve always been comfortable naked around my Fiance. He makes comment regularly about liking it when I have no clothes on (LOL!), so I guess that makes it a little easier to feel comfortableSmile 

Post # 23
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

I’ve never had problems being naked around my Fiance, he’s always made me feel beautiful and constantly is talking about my body and my different features in a positive way. Being with him has actually raised my self-esteem because if I’m having a “fat day” my Fiance can almost always bring me out of it and make me see myself as beautiful. Plus, I know that he won’t judge my body because he’s not totally comfortable with his body. During high school, a few months before I met him, my Fiance stopped eating properly and would eat very very small meals. He ended up losing 40 pounds in a month and kept it off. Because of his rapid weight loss he has some areas with extra skin (apparently, I don’t notice it at all, even when he tries to point it out). I know that he wouldn’t judge me because, as Chipmunk said, it’s not like he would want someone to judge him ( :

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