Post # 17
I find it a little self absorbed to use your honeymoon money on just yourself. I guess technically he would get enjoyment out of her new boobs, but it just seems to selfish in my opinion.
She can get boobs later on…like after kids since let’s face it, they don’t help in that department.
Post # 18
I see that honeymoon is winning on the poll way more than the boobies…
I wonder if the women saying honeymoon though have C size boobies or bigger because it’s really hard when you do have boobs to try to understand how it feels to have really little boobs… ya know
I get that some people may think she is being selfish but her fiance offered this obviously because he loves her and knows how bad she has wanted the boobs, but also because he will get to enjoy them.
“He also knows that once the vaca is over its over but boobies last forever”
HAhaha “Boobies…Last Forever”… that made me think of the Zales commercial..lol
Post # 19
There are so many weekens getaway trips on Groupon and Living Social deals online. They could go on a minimoon and she could get some boobs 00
Post # 20
Anything can happen that might prevent future vacations, so I say take the opportunity to travel first. Boobs, on the other hand, can wait.
EDIT: Just wanted to add that I’ve got A-cups!
Post # 21
@BrideToBe14: I think for her whole life she will have to tell a really shallow story- “we didnt go on a honeymoon, he said hed buy me my dream tits instead and I obliged!”
A honeymoon is a positive romantic start and a lifelong memory so I vote no. Honeymoon cant be repeated. Tits can happen later. *priorities*
Post # 22
Wait, does she want to do this BEFORE the wedding? I’m flat-ish, and I always thought a boob job was pretty superficial UNTIL I put a gown on!
If she plans on getting them AFTER the wedding, I’d say honeymoon first, tata’s later.
Post # 23
I say honeymoon but as you said, maybe most women saying that have larger than C cups. I am a very full E cup and as blessed as I may be in the chest department, when you say ‘long term joy’ for a boob job… it’s not all it’s cracked up to be. Small chested women don’t realise just how cumbersome bigger boobs can be. There’s a lot more to it than just being able to fill out a top more adequately. My boobs weight almost 10 lbs. Don’t even ask me about my back!
Post # 25
I have a modest sized chest (I actually wear a 32C, but no one would look at me and assume more than a B), and I still say honeymoon. You only get to be newlyweds once. She has her whole life to get breast implants.
Post # 26
I’m a barely B cup and I would go for the honeymoon in a heart beat! Honeymoons are a once in a lifetime (or per marriage, lol) experience. I wouldn’t do a Florida honeymoon and surgery as a compromise either. I would much rather have an amazing honeymoon. It was a sweet offer from the Fiance, they can save for the surgery down the road and it can be an awesome christmas or birthday present! I get that she has wanted them a long time, but what’s another year?
If she did the surgery instead it may also be awkward… “Can’t wait to see you at the wedding, where are you going for your honeymoon?” “We aren’t having a honeymoon, I’m getting plastic surgery instead.” I know a girl who got breast implants as her wedding gift (so they still had a honeymoon)- it made her Fiance look like a superficial d-bag- even though she wanted them.
Post # 27
I voted honeymoon and I’m a small B….
Post # 28
I’d do both. I’d go on the honeymoon for now, and enjoy that newly-wedded time… because that is a special time that only happens once (it being super new, I mean).
Then save up and get boobies later. Then go on another vacation! lol
Post # 29
My boob job was the best money I ever spent. On the other hand, I paid for it myself, and I’ve paid for lots of vacations since- and I don’t make huge amounts of money. It seems odd that this is an either/or decision.
I would get the boob job and then save together for the trip. And before I made a decision in either direction, I would make sure that this isn’t going to turn in to a thing he uses against her in the future, ie “We could have gone on vacation if YOU hadn’t had to have boobs!” or “I know you want a boob job, but i gave you that option years ago and you just had to go to the Bahamas.”
Post # 30
The fact that he sugested this tells me HE wants the boob job.
Post # 31
I also don’t know why it has to be one or the other forever. In fact, I would be offended by being put in the position of having to decide between a honeymoon and implants, one or the other, right now, all or nothing. My guess, and I may be completely off base, is that it’s the H who is being the selfish one here since he probably cares less about the honeymoon than she does and more about you know what.
Also, it comes across as controlling to that Fiance is dictating the terms rather than the two of them discussing how to make her dream, and apparently his as well, a reality at some future time.