Book: "The Multi Orgasmic Woman"? Have you read it?

posted 1 week ago in Intimacy
Post # 2
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Helper bee

havent read it yet, but may just do that! I feel im the same in that I am fine with going once, if I go more, than cool. haha

Post # 3
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 2017

mel2 :  maybe he should read it if he wants you to orgasm more.

Post # 6
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Helper bee

Sex 2-3 times a day.. I’m surprised you cum most times or nearly every time. I can personally orgasam multiple times in a row. Haven’t read the book. It’s easier to do it if I have sex once a day or every few days and the best are like once a week. Basically the way I discovered I could do it, was to just keep going after I came, to slow down a bit then to go faster and harder for another round. After the first one they get less intense and eventually less preasurable and even painful. I’ve been able to reach 3-4… although for me they don’t necessarily “stop” after the first one, the pulsing just gets less intense then I need to find that rhythm again and can have a larger climax again. After 3-4 orgasams I’m kinda exhausted. I can do it on my own with a good Lelo two prong vibrator or with my partner using the Lelo Sona (best vibrator to use with a partner in my opinion! I’m on my 3rd one lol)

Post # 7
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2016 - City, State

mel2 :  Do you actually want to have sex 2 or 3 times a day or would once be fine for you? Sex without an orgasm is frustrating for me (I know many people feel differently).

Post # 8
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Blushing bee

mel2 :  I always cum. That is not a negotiable. It’s not always with intercourse. Hubby will do other things to get me there. Usually twice. The second orgasm is like a sneeze, you can feel it building right after the first so it is easy to get there. The key is to slow down a bit after the first. Sex 2-3 times a day sounds like a job. I’d imagine I would be really numb if I was getting it that often. We usually have it once or twice a week. Sometimes less, sometimes more. Everyone has their own rhythm, maybe you need a break?

Post # 10
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2016 - City, State

mel2 :  I didn’t mean to insinuate your D.H forces it. If you are happy with that frequency I hope you can find a way to achieve orgasm more frequently. We don’t have the time to have sex thst often. Also I normally orgasm twice when we have sex but as we do it a few times a week I guess we have the time for me to reach orgasm more than once!

Post # 11
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Sugar bee

Sex 2 – 3x/day?

Will you even have time to read the book?

Post # 12
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Buzzing bee

Even *thinking* about sex 2-3 times a day (heck even ONCE a day, every day) made me physically exhausted LOL! 

Post # 13
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Blushing bee

mel2 :  you may be enjoying it but it could physically make it difficult for you to climax which is your husband’s goal, right? I know that when d.h. and I go at it for a long time, I get numb down there. At which point orgasm becomes difficult. Pair that with the pressure you feel to climax for him, you’re setting yourself up for something physically and mentally exhausting. Maybe limit intercourse and do other sexual activities. You also might want to talk to a therapist about your mental blocks that are interfering with your orgasms.

Post # 15
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2017

2 – 3 times a day… ๐Ÿค”๐Ÿค” do you guys have jobs? Cook meals? Clean your home? 

This is such a weird flex

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