Book: "The Multi Orgasmic Woman"? Have you read it?

posted 8 months ago in Intimacy
Post # 16
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

mel2 :  “He really wants me to cum every time or more than once…”

This seems like it could be potentially controlling if he really wants or expects it. It isn’t always easy to achieve an orgasm for a woman.

“…its a mental thing on my part. He pleases me and knows how to get me there but I have a hard time shutting my brain off.”

This is more common than you would think.

Post # 18
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Bumble bee

No one ever told me while I was exploring my sexuality that more than one time in a row, or an inability to O through vaginal penetration was “difficult for most women.” These were things women told me much later in life, and they surprised me.

I’m convinced that not knowing all of these potential limitations, or judgements people make, or intimacy insecurity that could get in my head and worry me allowed me to have my best version of a sex life. As long as your partner listens, and you don’t get in your own head about performance, I think it seems reasonable.

TBH though, I can’t imagine having multiple organism sex 3 times a day, daily, for years. At a certain point, it would just naturally make it harder for me to be genuinely “turned on” because things were so predictably scheduled, and there was no down time to build authentic desire. My libido would plummet if I knew that every day at 5:30am, 12:15pm, and 10:45 pm, I’d be having sex. (For 10 minutes or something, or do you two just have really, really free schedules?)

The predictability could be getting to you.

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