Post # 1
Do you get bored? Is this a normal part of life? Normal in the ups and downs of pre-marriage and marriage? What do you do about it? Could the feeling be wedding jitters? A manifestation of that horrid fear of commitment thing? What do you guys think?
Post # 3
Honestly, my husband has never bored me. Driven me crazy? Made me angry? Oh yeah. Bored? Never.
I usually can’t stand being around another person for more than five hours. I’ve never once had that antsy feeling of having to get away from him.
Post # 4
I don’t really know how to answer this. I guess I don’t expect Fiance to entertain me? Sure I am bored when he is around sometimes… but I don’t think he is boring. Life is boring sometimes 🙂
Post # 5
I voted “on occasion” because sometimes, my husband and I are bored together. There are some weekends where we just don’t feel like doing anything, but at the same time, we look at each other and say, “we’re bored!”
But I’m never board because of him, if that’s what you’re asking. We’re just sometimes bored together, and yes, I think that’s perfectly natural Life can’t always be super exciting.
Post # 6
*shrug* I don’t get bored easily. I can pretty much always find something to entertain myself. Plus, if one of us gets bored, usually we’ll say something and then go out to play! Sometimes all you need is a change of scenery 🙂
Post # 7
Sometimes I get bored because I’m very independent and we live together so I see him everyday. When I do get bored, I get out of the house for a few hours. When I get back I’m happy to see him!
Post # 8
We’ve been together for so long that it’s bound to happen every now and then. I don’t think it’s necessarily a reflection of him. It’s not as if I get bored of him or because of him it’s just life can’t always be exciting and new. Am I making any sense?
Post # 9
I voted on occassion. I wouldnt say he bores me but there are times when we are bored together. Nothing on TV, nowhere to go, nothing to do kinda thing.
Post # 10
Not going to lie, sometimes my dear boyfriend bores me to tears. Of course, that’s only when he’s lecturing on the history of the baptist church in the 1980’s, classic films of the 1930’s or you know, the study of BEING. He knows everything and is working towards being a college professor, but right now he doesn’t have an audience to lecture about such things and so… here I am.
Post # 11
Well, I can be bored AROUND my husband, but HE doesn’t bore me. He’s not exactly a crazy entertaining dance around kind of fella, but if he bored me…I would take that as his inability to carry on a conversation or do meaningful things with me. Don’t get me wrong, I’m bored without him sometimes….but his personality doesn’t bore me. I’m pretty busy so I don’t get “bored” necessarily
Post # 12
I spend my whole week at work being bored as hell at work so I couldn’t bear it if I were bored around him!
I only get to see my guy on weekend (we don’t live in the same city) and we action pack our weekends together.
If you’re finding your bored around your guy maybe you should try picking up some new activities together? If all you do together is watch TV I can see how you’d get bored.
Post # 13
My Fiance doesn’t bore me but I do get bored around him. Sometimes there aren’t things to do, things to watch, whatever but I don’t think he’s a boring person. He has a great personality and is very engaging but there are times when it is boring being around him.
Post # 14
Car rides. Especially after work and to work. He’s grumpy in the mornings because he is NOT a morning person and after work, he just needs unwinding time and they’re also tearing up the interstate we use to get home so our 15 minutes commute has turned into 45… And I get bored. I want to talk but he’d rather not. He just wants to listen to music and unwind.
Post # 15
I can’t recall ever being truly bored with him. Sometimes he rambles on about work, but that’s amusing in its own right. 😛 We’re a pretty introverted pair and can be quiet for a long time without it bothering us, so we’re happy to do our own thing rather than try to entertain each other. I guess that growing up in the middle of nowhere taught me to amuse myself.
Post # 16
I’m voting on this in the same way that cheerful saw the poll
No, I have never thought, my Fiance is so boring I just can’t stand to be next to him.
Do we ever get bored when we’re together because we have nothing to do…yes.