(Closed) Both of us proposing to eachother? (Help please, I’m very confused)

posted 6 years ago in Proposals
Post # 3
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1133 posts
Bumble bee

LOL, you are all over the place girly. So she wants to propose to you, you want to propose to her. Is there one person who wants to propose the MOST? If she said she always imagined her being the one to propose, do you have any problems just letting her do it?? If you guys are in a committed loving relationship, I don’t see there being anything awkward or confusing about it ๐Ÿ™‚ It will be a lovely experience for the both of you, whichever you choose! I can’t imagine two people both proposing to eachother, because then it would just sorta be like a wedding or something lol. Both giving rings, etc. Choose one or the other and then if you want to, maybe the person who proposed can go get a ring also ?? ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 5
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1855 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I’ve known couples where both partners got engagment rings; my brother got a man-gagement ring after proposing to his (now) wife b/c he felt left out not having one.  So, for example, she could propose to you and then you could get her an engagement gift/ring.  It wouldn’t be like a second proposal, but more of a gift that symbolizes your engagement.

Post # 8
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6248 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 1900

Actually I’ve heard of same-sex and different-sex couples proposing to each other. It doesn’t always involve both parties getting a ring, but there’s no reason why not.

ETA: Thanks for posting that example @totheislnds:. It’s one I was thinking of!

Post # 9
Bee
1433 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2012 - Historic Lougheed House

@totheislnds:  Haha you beat me to the punch! 

Check out my blog! We planned a day and both proposed ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 10
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3981 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

@totheislnds:  I was looking for that! Thanks for posting it!

I love how they both did it. It was special for each on and it was honestly so beautiful. I know they will help you get a better idea.

Post # 11
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6998 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2011

@eagle:  what can i say? i love reading your wedding blog ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 12
Bee
1433 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2012 - Historic Lougheed House

@totheislnds:  That seriously means so much to me. Thank you!

Post # 15
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5295 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 1993

@xLolitaChanx:  well…..to be honest, is the age in your profile correct? Because I’m not generally a hater on young brides, but I do think both should be of legal age. 

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