(Closed) Both virgins, but only one with concerns..

posted 6 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
3569 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

I think that is something you should be consulting your doctor about.

Post # 4
946 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

@TwoCityBride:  agree. You should speak with your gynecologist. 

Post # 5
826 posts
Busy bee

I would get it snipped by the doctor, if I were you.  If it can’t be broken through intercourse, then it will really put a damper on your honeymoon.  

Post # 6
1540 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

maybe you should *ahem* try some stuff out yourself first. I wouldn’t leave everything to the honeymoon.

Post # 7
733 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Talk to your doc, you could seriously injure yourself or him if he gets eager and tries to shove it in both!

Post # 8
225 posts
Helper bee


I had to look up what that was… but I’m pretty sure I had a microperforate hymen. I could not use tampons before I lost my virginity. 

In my case, sex was extremely (I have a low pain tolerance, haha) painful the first time, bled a little, and it hurt for the next week. But it was doable. So.. I think in your case you might want to have the minor surgery, or perhaps use a small vibrator to break it at least a week before your honeymoon. 

Honestly, I’m not sure I could break it on my own so maybe surgery is the way to go. 

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