Post # 16
Bee, unfortunately, I think since they are engaged before you and actively planning , they do get first dibs on the summer date if they want that. Though it would be nice (and I would do it), they probably won’t consider what you may or may not want for yourselves. Even if they did get engaged just to “jump the gun” and reserve the summer date before you (and I believe you that they might have done this), the fact still remains that they are planning right now and you are not. Don’t worry, it will all work out. Try not to get stressed in advance.
Post # 17
You’re makign way too many assumptions and worry about nothing at the moment. Deal with it when/if it happens. If you dont want to change plans, then dont. They dont have to. You don’t have to either. If you wanna beat them to the punch, tell your Boyfriend or Best Friend to hurry up and propose so you can beat them to booking something?
Post # 18
Just wait a few months. Once you’re engaged, they would have hopefully set a date and then you can plan your date and honeymoon around that. It’s not a big deal to have both this coming summer!
Post # 19
Sansa85 : when I talked about bust size double d it also became dirty delete. That was funny!
Post # 20
Um….you’re not even engaged yet. They are and will probably pick a date first. You have plenty of other days from which to choose, so I don’t see a problem here other than you being needlessly dramatic. Accept the things you cannot change.
Post # 21
Couldn’t agree more , if it is out there to other people , as in “when they got word of my Boyfriend preparing to propose ” ( tho wtf, ‘preparing ‘ for months, and in any case other people knowing it…? .) why not just do it , annnounce it and start planning !
Post # 22
beachyoutoit32 : ummm it’s his BROTHER, of course you’re going to have to plan around their schedule so that you can go to / be in his wedding. Just like they will have to plan their summer plans around your schedule to go to / be in your wedding. That’s what being family is all about. I’m sure you can find some time to have a nice honeymoon as well. You need to chill a bit girl.
Post # 23
Sansa85 : someone mentioned their “DD” boobs in a dress post and it turned into Dirty Delete boobs hahaha. I was like wtf kind of boobs are those???